through her eyes

They ruin my plan. I hate my school so damn much.

You know, it’s really hard for me (well mypersonality.info told me I am an ISTJ so yeah I’m a-judging-type-of-person) to not judge people from their look. Especially when you’re traveling around, you’ll start to learn other cultures and other habits based from their race. I might sound a little racist but I start to judge people from their race.

I know it’s wrong, and yeah I still work on it. Huff.

Now I’ve arrived in Dubai. This is my second time here, but still the airport itself still give me a “Wow” effect.

So, I take an emirates plane to go here then I’ll transfer to Amsterdam and I’ve arrived in the terminal which is exclusive for emirates only. And this terminal is huge. Like very very huge.

You see in Jakarta we have 3 terminal in our airport, one fore international flights and 2 for domestic flights. Now can you imagine in this terminal is as big as those 3 terminal join into 1 terminal only for emirates. Wow right?

Now I’m still waiting in the prayer room, for my next flight to Amsterdam in about another 2 hour. Maybe this is my last time to see a prayer room for Moslem in the next 3 weeks.

What I love the most about the prayer room is it’s very comfy. The water we use to wudhu is warm. So it’s very comforting, especially if you just had a long tiring flight.

Well that’s it from me for now. Good day to you all folks!

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You know that feeling, when someone throw a insulting line about you, right in front of your face.
And aaaalllll you want to do is do the best you can, to be a much better person than them.
To prove to them that they’re the failure.
Not you.
To make them regret all the thing they said about you.
To do the sweetest revenge of all time.

Yeah. I’ve been holding that feeling right now.

The person who pushes to be friends is usually the one who has unfinished business but doesn’t want to own that or doesn’t want the responsibility of the relationship, but is unwilling to completely relinquish the ex. That is a selfish motive and not fair to the other person. Do your work and let the other person do their work and heal. It is not fair to string someone along as a “friend” because you can’t deal with the pain of having them out of your life completely.

As with any post-breakup dealings with the ex: examine your motives. A coworker recently said to me, “I want to be friends after the breakup and she doesn’t. She’s a terrific person and I don’t want her out of my life.”

If you’re the one who is asking to be friends, examine your motives. Are you trying to avoid your grief? Are you playing a game? Are you unwilling to really break all ties but don’t want the relationship either? Do you want benefits without responsibility? Do you want to hurt someone else because you don’t want to be in a relationship but you don’t want to let go completely either? If so, that’s dysfunctional and wrong.

Some people can’t do endings. If you can’t do endings (if you’re still friends with absolutely everyone you’ve gone out with), you might need to think about that. Others just don’t end things because they don’t know how. If your ex is one of those, don’t let him or her lead the way. Take charge of ending it and not remaining friends.

If you are the one who isn’t able to end things, don’t inject your inability to come to terms with the end of the relationship on the other person. It’s simply not fair. Yes, she’s hurt. You’re making things worse. If you truly think she is terrific, then let this terrific person have her space to heal. You cannot have it both ways. Leave it alone.

If your ex is asking you to be friends, don’t let him or her manipulate or guilt you into it. Your healing is what matters, not impressing your ex with your ability to be okay with the friends thing. It’s okay if you don’t want to be friends. It’s more than okay, it’s healthy. So, if you’re the person who is being asked, say no. Short and sweet. Pure and simple.

Don’t try to explain or rationalize — just say no or maybe no, not now. The problem with saying “not now” is that it will usually be followed by “When?” and you just don’t know. No is a one-word sentence. Say it and then go. No further explanation necessary. Again, being friends with your ex can be a minefield. Don’t try to cross it in the early stages of the breakup.

The early stage is about you taking care of you. You need time and space to heal. Be good to you and the healing will happen

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